I think I need to step back and take baby steps towards radical acceptance. I've been trying to radically accept the worst things that have happened to me in 49 years of living. Not the person who habitually irritates me with an annoying habit. Not the fact that lot rent is going to go up, because it always does. I've been tackling real life and death stuff -- and death was winning.
So I know I need to deal with the really big stuff too, I just don't think that's the wisest place to begin. I've been feeling so defeated, that I was never going to succeed.
I still don't think it's an easy process, but radically accepting that a friend of mine is going to do the same stupidly-annoying thing on a regular basis is far easier than radically accepting the loss of someone very close.
Purple Pizzazz
So I know I need to deal with the really big stuff too, I just don't think that's the wisest place to begin. I've been feeling so defeated, that I was never going to succeed.
I still don't think it's an easy process, but radically accepting that a friend of mine is going to do the same stupidly-annoying thing on a regular basis is far easier than radically accepting the loss of someone very close.
Purple Pizzazz